Widowhood
Abigail Wright (History)
What is Widowhood?
Widowhood is a term that first came about in the 13th century. It derives from the Old English term of wuduwanhad, meaning an unmarried woman after the death of a spouse. Today, a widow is a female who has not remarried after the death of her spouse (a male in this situation is called a widower). There are more than 258 million widows around the world, according to the United Nations. This cabinet looks at widowhood as a concept, widowhood in society and widows themselves from the 17th century to the present day.
The 17th century
During this century, 15% of the female population in Britain were widows, as noted by Moring and Wall. As a result of this, there were harsh stereotypes created about this group. Examples of stereotypes against widowed women were that they were lusty or manipulative. Because of these stereotypes, there were a lot of plays written about widows during the 17thcentury, as they were easy to capitalise from. For example,The Widdow, which was published in 1652, conveyed widows as opportunities for young men. In the 17th century, widowhood was integrated into social life through stereotypes and consequently, pop culture.
The 18th century
During the 18th century, lots of widows took up the role of landlady. Widowhood was seen as an opportunity for independence, yet they still came under the scrutiny of cruel stereotypes. Landladies were viewed as prostitutes or brothel madams, and this is conveyed in paintings of the time. Nonetheless, landladies were able to earn money and be sociable while staying in their family home after the death of their spouse.
The 19th century
For the 19th century, we examine the case study of Queen Victoria as a widow after the death of Prince Albert in 1861. This century saw the explosion in the use of photography: it was central to Victoria鈥檚 mourning, allowing her to combine private mourning with her public role. Busts of Albert used to be included in family photographs as a method of memorialising him. Furthermore, Victoria wore black clothing until she died in 1901. She mourned Albert for the rest of her life, becoming known by later generations for her permanent mourning through her black clothing.
The 20th century
The 20th century saw a large increase in the amount of widows as a result of the First World War. There was a lot of commotion over pensions 鈥� a widow could receive half of her late husband鈥檚 pension if his death was directly caused by the war. But a sum was introduced for remarriage to encourage women to remove themselves from the pension list. As a memorial, the 鈥楧ead Man鈥檚 Penny鈥� was given to the next of kin of soldiers who died directly because of the war. It was also known as the 鈥楧eath Plaque鈥� or the 鈥榃idow鈥檚 Penny鈥� 鈥� it was distributed from December 1918.
The 21st century
Today, there is no 鈥榗orrect way鈥� to mourn as there seemed to be in the past. Joann Filomena describes the famous stages of grief as 鈥榳hatever you鈥檙e feeling鈥�. A method of memorialising a late spouse is memorial accounts on social media. Meta platforms like Facebook and Instagram allow for accounts to be frozen in remembrance of the deceased. Louisa Young says that 鈥榳idowhood seems almost an old-fashioned concept鈥�, conveying the development of widowhood through time because it is so different today than in the past. There are less societal expectations and less stereotypes in an era of increasing female independence.
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